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In my search I kept looking and looking. I was 20 years old, in college and had recently lost a lot of weight, so I was feeling pretty confident. Guys were approaching me, but there was no one who I really liked all that much, and I never felt that magic spark or chemistry I had heard so much about. Finally, there came a day when I was ready to give up. Instead, I started wondering about myself: could I be doing something wrong? From then on I decided to try a new approach, sort of an experiment in self-exploration. Now of course this is within reason- I trusted my gut reaction and did not go with anyone who gave off a creepy vibe.

Most of the guys I met through friends, at parties, on campus somewhere or at Starbucks. I made a conscious effort to be open minded. If the guy had the courage to ask me out, I gave him the benefit of the doubt. Over a period of six months I went out on dates with seven or eight guys, mostly just first dates, but there were a couple second dates too.

As an added bonus, I found that if I went into the date with that open attitude, it was much easier to be myself, to talk and to laugh. Some element of pressure I had been putting on myself was removed. A few months after this so-called experiment was over, a cute guy walked into the coffee shop where I worked. After a few weeks of taking his order and making his double short lattes, he asked me out.

Some of the butterflies and nervousness came up again, probably because I was attracted to him and wanted things to work out, but, in general, I tried to apply what I had learned. I was open and tried not to be critical or judgmental. So here are a few recommendations when looking for your Mr. Be open to re-evaluating your expectations, and maybe even yourself. Be realistic, look at the whole package. Try to find a balance, hopefully leaning more toward the side of things you do like.

The truth is people have to want to change on their own. Try to let your guard down. Let him know you like him, avoid playing hard to get because he might not want to play. Being yourself can be tough in new dating situations. Looking for Mr. Perfect, Finding Mr. About the Author. Related Articles. Has anyone ever told you that you are too sensitive or too emotional? Love -- kindness, affection, sensitive attunement, respect, companionship -- is not only difficult to find, but is even more challenging….

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