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Some links are affiliate links, which means if you make a purchase through these links, I earn a commission, at no extra cost to you. Are the Japanese sexually frustrated? I think so. Why do I say this? Sometimes I try to understand things escaping us, Westerners with our Western vision and our Western mentality. In a nutshell, we wanna know what is the Japanese sexuality culture, and why is Japanese culture so sexualized? I had been in Japan for less than 24 hours, and I was comfortably ensconced in my seat, in the shinkansen Japanese high-speed train from Kagoshima to Tokyo.
A bit further, a Japanese woman was dozing, her head leaning against the window. An empty seat separated her from a Japanese guy wearing a suit. The Japanese guy wearing a suit was taking a picture of the Japanese woman sleeping next to him, especially her legs she was wearing a skirt…. As soon as he realized I noticed his shady goings-on, he took his belongings in a few seconds and left! The night before, I was in the common area of the hostel where I stayed for one night only, in Kagoshima. I was one of the very few clients there. I had a great conversation with the owner, a friendly years-old Japanese woman.
I decided to watch quickly what was on TV… Flipping through the channels, there was almost porn only! Seriously they were not broadcasting an umpteenth rerun of an old TV show, but porn on numerous channels. My curiosity was piqued and pushed me to watch for a few minutes.
Surprising, there was also porn anime. Once again, on several channels, I saw more or less the same thing : an octopus was making several girls come at the same time with its tentacles. Weird fantasy… I also had to mention the adult game shows like this one…. Japanese game show where men have to sing karaoke while getting a hand job, and need to make it to the end of the song to win. In Tokyo, I saw a guy jerking off outside, in a discreet street, watching a video on his smartphone he put on the ground… in broad daylight, at 3pm!
In Tokyo again, in Kabukicho, known for being the disreputable area of Tokyo, a weird guy asked me if I wanted hot girls to have sex with… at 11am! Yeah it happens in Paris where I live , but rarely in the morning, and never miming a penetration with their fingers! That was a lot of little things adding up in just a few days in Japan! One evening, I was having a walk in Akihabara, Tokyo. An area filled with arcade games, stores selling video games, mangas, figurines… I ended up in one of those stores, watching mangas but also video games from the s. I decided to go upstairs to see what was up there.
And what did I see? Porn, once again porn, more and more porn! Got it? Those are dirty panties. Yeah panties already worn by Japanese women, and now for sale in this building. I found out later that dirty panties is a fantasy in several parts of the world, but extremely popular in Japan! Around me, three different customers were about to buy dirty panties. Since I was apparently in sex paradise in Tokyo, I made the most of it and I visited the whole building! This is when I realized the Japanese have really twisted fantasies sometimes… Again, in several hentai, I saw octopuses sweeping off their feet five or six girls at the same time.
All over the building, they sell dirty panties prices varied a lot, I think it depends on who wore it, how long the girl wore it, if she got wet…. Something was more shocking to me. They were selling numerous playing cards. On the cards, instead of the usual spades, diamonds, jack… you see Japanese girls who look like teenagers around 15, in lascivious positions… I said 15 but sometimes I wondered if they were not 12 or 13 only, they looked like kids!
It reminded me of the porn movies I had watched a few days earlier at the hostel, where the actresses all looked extremely young. Indeed, in the movies, the actor was always raping the actress…. All those things, I saw them during the first few days of my stay in Japan. You can only imagine my surprise! I knew the Japanese had a different relationship with sex, but it always feels different when you see all those things with your own eyes. Obviously, after all those observations, the first question that comes to mind is… why???
Why do they broadcast porn on numerous channels at night? Why does it seem like they have a thing for very young Japanese girls? And what about this rape fantasy? Moreover, in some schools, flings are forbidden! With young Japanese focused on their studies, always trying to get the best grades possible in order to get into a good university, the interactions between boys and girls are almost nonexistent from school. It lasts until they enter university where finally, boys and girls start to rub shoulders with each other. The problem is, until then, boys and girls have had very few interactions.
In front of them, they see beautiful women, more and more modern and independent, not submissive at all like they used to be, at a time when things were simpler cause marriages were arranged anyway. Regarding women, they also start to rub shoulders with men when they get into university. A few brave Japanese guys court them, and surprisingly, short-term, casual flings happen at the uni. Women then the professional world and start working.
Once again, short-term flings happen like anywhere else! However, a lot of Japanese women have absolutely no desire to get in a serious relationship. Quite simply, getting married and having kids means the end of their hard-won careers. Moreover day-care centers or private nurseries are extremely expensive.
For all those reasons, more and more Japanese women decide to stay away from a married life, and decide to not have kids. On the other side we have Japanese women who refuse to give up their careers for a family life. What to do then…? To me, the sexual frustration of the Japanese comes from this.
Just like those countries in Middle East, this frustration sometimes creates weird behaviors and fantasies. Which countries watch the most porn? The Japanese sex life is… almost dead! The porn industry is the second biggest one in Japan after the car industry. It generates billion yens 1. The Japanese have absolutely nothing against short-term flings. In fact those casual affairs are numerous in Japan, especially between coworkers. Do Japanese women like sex? I guess so, like almost all of us. Yes, Japanese women and sex are two compatible terms. But getting in a long-term relationship and make babies?
No thanks! Add to that all the geeks disconnected from the outside world, and you have three million Japanese people over 35 who still live with their parents. Those guys are not interested in sex at all, they take care of themselves, they have no ambition and they stay close to their mothers.
This absence of sexual intercourse between men and women creates a sexual frustration I could clearly feel when I was there. The absence of hanky-panky poses another problem. Nowadays in Japan, there are more pets than children in early infancy! The Japan population has been shrinking since ! At this pace, Japan is going to lose one third of its population by ! Some people talk about an extinction of the Japanese population!
In Osaka , I went to a restaurant to eat alone , and then to a bar to have a drink by myself one evening. There were about 12 customers, all Japanese, all over Not one of them had kids, not even the two couples who were drinking at the bar! For those in a relationship, life is no bed of roses either. The man goes to work and earns money for the household, the woman looks after the kids… The kids, although they bring happiness in a couple, also mean the end of sexual relations in a couple life.
Once is born, the mother becomes like a relative, not a sexual partner anymore. One more frustration, which pushes men and women to look elsewhere. The love hotels and hostess bars are full of married men on the weekend. The Japanese guys are numerous to go looking for hookers, which is a good thing for the Japanese mafia, they make a shitload of money. I just wanted to say Japan is a wonderful country, and people are lovely, but after visiting many places in the world, I quickly understood the Japanese are not completely happy, some of them even look sad. I finally understood it was partly because of this sexual frustration.
At the end of my stay in Japan, a tchikan guys groping or molesting girls in the subway got caught while groping a girl in the subway. He apologized and said he was tired of not having a girlfriend…. Have you ever been to Japan? Have you noticed their different relationship with sex over there? Let me know in the comments! Brilliant article and very well researched! Does the Japanese government recognise this? Are they doing anything to encourage more relationships between heterosexual couples?
Also, it seems that the porn industry is set up to give men an outlet. What about the Japanese woman? Thank you! From what I heard, yeah the Japanese government recognise this. They recognize the problem of low birth rate. That they can talk about. What an interesting read. I am dying to visit Japan next year…. Now can you honestly tell me your didnt buy some or two of those juicy panties? For investigative purposes of course? Sigh… on one side of the world too little value and standards are placed on long-term relationships between men and women, and on this other end, far too much.
The Japanese have always fascinated me. It is easy to find this stuff, but not as easily outside of the metropolises. Also the pornography on television? At least what I consider pornography. Late night TV has plenty of tittilation, but nothing resembling actual pornography.
I guess we experienced Japan differently. According to what you had exposed here , are living in a country with a brutal Capitalism , that they forced them to become like robots. Marriage or long term relationships does not resolve anything. Most of the time Western men get tired of their wives and partners , and begin to look for another woman.Girls looking for sex in Japan
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